The first round of invitations will be sent in July/August. These RSVPs will be open until November. The second round of invitations will be sent around October/November. These RSVPs will be open until December.

Doors open at 10:00am and the ceremony starts at 10:30am. Please be seated by 10:25am.

Unless you have a pre-approved +1, you may not bring another guest to the event. If you would like to request a +1, please reach out to one of the grooms for approval. Please check in at the welcome desk upon arrival.

This is an adults-only event. No guests under 18-years old are permitted. (Exceptions are made for the groom's siblings only.)

Non-service animals are not permitted inside of Webster Hall.

No...? Any open flames such as candles, fireworks, sparklers, smoke, smoking, and anything that may spark a flame are not permitted.

No. What the hell is a closed flame?

Sure, if you want to be escorted out by security (we are hiring really burly scary and mean gays, the kind who will make sure this will haunt you for the rest of your life) Be at your best behavior please!

There will only be street parking. This is San Francisco, so please plan accordingly! Do not leave valuables in your car. Do not leave pets in your car. Be safe!

From Webster Hall: Fulcrum Group takes no responsibility for personal effects and possessions left on premises during or after any event by the client, client guests, invitees, agents, and subcontractors. We do, however, maintain a lost and found and will hold recovered items for up to 30-days. Client is responsible for any charges that may incur for the return of lost and found items.

Think upperclass modern fairytale chic. When in doubt, go full Bridgerton. See the "Dress Code" page for details!

Please do not bring physical gifts for the grooms! Instead, we humbly request you take a look at our "Honeymoon" and "Registry" pages for information about how you can help us fund our Honeymoon :)

TBA —but likely a ticket service with a limit and then a cash bar if you want more drinks.

No smoking is allowed. Please go to the street, if you must.

We have limited room blocks at Kimpton Hotel Enso, which is walking distance from Webster Hall. Please see the "Hotel" page for more information!

Check out the "Things to Do" page for some recommendations from the grooms!

Full line-up TBA, but we can say that we're getting help from the iconic team behind Princess and Reparations at Oasis SF for a memorable time. Bring some dollar bills for the queens, if you can!

The gay kind.

Yes. Wash your hands!

Probably not :(

We always appreciate any help we can get. Please text one of the grooms if you'd like to volunteer for any of the following: Welcome Booth Check-In, Disposable Camera Distribution/Collection, Fairygodmother Fashion Police, Fairygodmother Fashion EMT, Queen Care, Dance Captain, Conga-line Leader, The one who has to teach everyone the Cupid Shuffle or Electric Slide, Emotional support for either or both grooms, Hot but kinda scary bouncer, Changing the grooms' tires when they finally get a car, Putting up picture frames in the grooms' apartment, Babysitting Astarion and other things!